Miss P and I have been talking alot over HTHTs about BGRs and complicated situations, and one of them was this:
What if you were together with X but then things didn't work out with X so the both of you have remained as close friends but you liked X's good friend, Y who also likes you but doesn't know that you and X were together?
Would you want to cause a rift between X and Y? And then also potentially lose the friendship of X because he might feel bitter and awkward when you and Y get together and display affection in front of him?
Miss P and I found that either way, it's never going to be a win-win situation for all 3 people entangled in this. HAAAAAAAA.